#16 [2025/CBR17] The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt

I'm not sure when I first heard of The Anxious Generation (2024) by Jonathan Haidt, but it sounded interesting. So, I listened to it on audiobook from my library. This book discusses how much damage phones and social media have done to children as they grow up. It goes on to make recommendations for healthy ways for young people to engage with social media. Finally, Haidt points out that kids are watched over too closely. They need independence and free play in order to gain confidence and figure out who they are.

Reading this book made me happy that I grew up before cell phones--and especially before smart phones. I can finally be grateful for being old[er]. I remember middle school being a harrowing journey with an immense amount of social stress. I didn't know who I was and wasn't comfortable in my body. I can only imagine how much worse that would be with the influence of social media.

Haidt looks at the numbers of adolescents, especially girls, suffering from depression and anxiety over the years. The numbers jumped precipitously soon after the debut of the iphone. Boys also faced downward trends in wellbeing, although phones and social media seemed to affect them differently.

I learned that the ages from 12-15 (or thereabouts) are a stage of great malleability and growth in the adolescent brain. It's the time when people really figure out who they are. Haidt uses the example of a child living abroad. If he grew up in Tokyo but lived in Los Angeles from 12-15, he will most likely feel more connected to L.A. than Tokyo. What this means in practice, though, is that endlessly scrolling on social media is significantly worse for adolescents than it is for adults. And it's not even remotely healthy for adults.

Haidt's recommendations seemed very reasonable to me. He also includes a website where he promises to post updates as new research comes out. He recommends that children under sixteen do not have access to a smart phone with apps like Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat, etc. He also recommends in a significant amount of free play for children to find independence and confidence.

I do not have any children, but this seems like a book that would be helpful to parents. It also made me think about how addictive Instagram reels have become to me. After my husband read this book, he decided to do one day a week without any Twitter. Recommended.

#15 [2025/CBR17] Deep End by Ali Hazelwood

Ali Hazelwood is churning out her feminist STEM romance novels so fast, that I'm barely keeping up. As soon as I discover another one is out, then I join the long waitlist at the library. Deep End (2025) did not disappoint. I loved that the book took place at Stanford with student athletes. I thought the story was interesting, and the chemistry between the leads was great. Was it a perfect book? No, but I enjoyed reading it and would give it four out of five stars.

Scarlett Vandemeer, who goes by Vandy, is a diver at Stanford. She can be a little reclusive and awkward. Penelope is one of the stars of the diving team. She's gorgeous and seems to have everything--including Lukas, the Swedish superstar swimmer who already has Olympic medals. But when Penelope confides in Vandy that she wants to break up with Lukas because he's into BDSM, and she feels they're not compatible sexually, Vandy confesses that she's also into BDSM, and tries to advise Penelope.

Penelope and Lukas do break up. When Penelope is drunk at a party, she tells Lukas and Vandy they should hook up because they're both into the same things. At the time, this is just an awkward situation to work around, but neither Lukas nor Vandy forget. When they continue to find themselves together, their mutual attraction is undeniable.

Vandy really likes Lukas, but she does not want to hook up with her friend's ex-boyfriend. Eventually, she gives in to her attraction, but she's not comfortable telling Penelope about it. This continues while they both compete in swimming and diving and get even closer to each other. Vandy and Lukas are a very good couple. Their main problem is that Vandy keeps pushing him away because of Penelope. Eventually this all comes to a head, and everyone lives happily ever after. 

First, I enjoyed that the main characters in this novel were athletes. It felt a little different from Hazelwood's other books, and it was interesting to see what the life of an elite student athlete was like. Second, I thought Vandy and Lukas had great chemistry. I read some reviews on Goodreads that were complaining that the book was not very kinky after Hazelwood warned of kink at the beginning of the book. I would agree that it felt lightly kinky. But having read Hazelwood's other books, this felt like a natural progression after the mild introduction of control in Not in Love. On the whole, I enjoyed this book, and I'm looking forward to reading her next one.

#14 [2024/CBR17] Onyx Storm by Rebecca Yarros

I've already spent a lot of time reading the Empyrean Series by Rebecca Yarros, so I quickly picked up Book 3 of the series when it became available to me. Onyx Storm (2025) continues to follow Violet Sorrengail and her loves and adventures in the Kingdom of Navarre. Violet is still technically a student. She is in her third year in the dragon school that kills at least twice as many people as it graduates. She has been chosen by two very special dragons and is one of the most powerful students there.

Although there have been some interesting and moving scenes in every book of Yarros's Empyrean Series, I am losing interest. The story just goes on for so long, and there are so many details and people, that they're hard to keep straight. 

In this book, the love of Violet's life, Xaden, has turned to the dark side. He was forced to channel the evil power in order to save the city and the school. At this point, he can still control himself, but it is definitely an obstacle in their relationship.

Violet, Xaden, and a small group are sent down South to look for the seventh breed of dragon, which is needed to power their wards and keep them safe back home. Violet is also looking for anything that might cure Xaden before he loses himself.

At the same time, a very powerful, evil, dark wielder named Theophanie keeps showing up because she wants to turn Violet into Venin herself. Theophanie seems to give up and go away at opportune times, but Violet knows she will have to face her one day. At some point, the seventh breed of the dragon comes and helps them power their ward. However, it also convinces Andarna (one of Violet's dragons), that she should break her bond with Violet and go learn from them. Andarna leaves Violet, and it almost kills her. (I did find this to be a very touching scene.)

After dragons are captured and a major battle, Xaden is forced to channel again, and he turns fully Venin. Violet is able to kill Theophanie, but she has lost Xaden and Andarna. When she wakes up, Xaden is nowhere to be found, Violet cannot remember the last couple of hours, and Violet is apparently married to Xaden. This one definitely ended on a cliffhanger.

Onyx Storm is Book 3 of what will apparently be a five book series. Part of me wants to just be done with this series and let the other books lie. However, I am almost positive that Xaden and Violet end up together, and now I'm curious how that will work with Xaden being evil and all. I guess I'll just have to wait and see. With only two more books to go, it just might be worth it.

P.S. I've heard people say this this book was much better than the second book. I'm not sure I agree. I think I liked the first book the best so far.

#13 [2025/CBR17] Pretty Girls by Karin Slaughter

I've read Cop Town by Karin Slaughter, which I appreciated for a number of reasons. So when I found Pretty Girls (2016) by the same author under "popular audiobooks" at the library's website, I downloaded it almost immediately. Slaughter seems to write gritty, violent books, but I was unprepared for this one. Knowing what I know now, I would not have chosen to read it. Although I did finish it, the violence and darkness was too much for me. I did think it was well-written, but I would not personally recommend it.

Julia, Lydia, and Claire are three sisters with a seemingly perfect family. Their mother and father love both each other and their kids very much. But everything falls apart when the eldest daughter, Julia, disappears from college at the University of Georgia. She is only nineteen years old. 

At first the community rallies around the family, looking everywhere for the beautiful teenager who has disappeared. But when no trace of her is found, the cops decide that Julia must have run away. As time passes, most people move on with their lives. But Julia's parents can't take the stress and split up. Lydia becomes a drug addict, and becomes estranged from the rest of her family. Their father eventually commits suicide after obsessing over his daughter's case for years.

Now, twenty years later, another young woman has just vanished. Both Claire and Lydia are very aware of the similarities of the missing girl and their sister. But when Claire's husband, Paul, is murdered in the street in front of her eyes, her entire life as she knows it is over.

***SPOILERS*** AND ***TRIGGER WARNING***

While going through Paul's computer to find his work files, she stumbles upon some pornographic videos. At first, she's not concerned, but the scene quickly turns into one of harrowing violence and murder. (I don't have any interest in going into the details here.) This leads Claire to get back in touch with Lydia and the two try to figure out what's going on.

Halfway through the book, we learn that Paul is actually alive and he was the torturer/murderer that Claire had first seen on the screen. He has a list of clients that he sells his videos to, and there are a sickening number of both clients and victims throughout the years. 

You would think I'd almost be done with the book by now, but there was still almost half of it to go. Paul kidnaps Lydia, leaving Claire alone (for some reason that was not wholly satisfactory to me at the time.) But there was more to endure. This included detailed torture as well as learning that almost everyone in the world was involved

***END SPOILERS***

This was a generally well-written book. I did especially like the beginning as Slaughter slowly introduces the different characters, and we don't yet know how they are related. However, I was horrified by that first violent scene, and I was cringing whenever things got violent in the book after that. The more violence that I see at work, the less I want to see it in my entertainment. And these scenes were especially disturbing to me. I cannot stomach people intentionally hurting others. I looked at some of the reviews, and the majority were enthusiastically positive, so others may still enjoy this book. However, this one was hard for me to get through.

#12 The Last Ranger by Peter Heller

Peter Heller is a local writer who is only one degree of separation away from me: He apparently knows a guy I kind of dated a long time ago. But this slim brush with celebrity is not why I continue to read his books. I enjoy his writing and like his focus on nature. 

In The Last Ranger (2023), Ren is an enforcement ranger in Yellowstone National Park. He deals with car accidents, campers' disputes, law enforcement, and poaching. He is a haunted man who hasn't really dealt with his past, which includes an alcoholic mother and the early death of his wife. His wife intentionally overdosed after dealing with painful congenital health problems that were only going to get worse. 

Peter lives in the park in a small cabin built for employees. The next closest cabin is inhabited by Hilly, a dedicated wolf researcher, who cares more about her wolves than people. As anyone who has spent much time out West, the conflict between people who want wolves in the wild and those who don't is pretty intense. Even though Yellowstone is protected from hunting, ranchers kill the wolves as soon as they step out of the park. In addition, poachers even come into the park and kill wolves. 

After a wolf is killed in Yellowstone, Ren begins investigating who could have killed it. But then Hilly is badly hurt and almost dies, and Ren bumps up his investigation even more. He desperately wants to find out who is responsible. 

For the most part, I enjoyed reading this book. I think a part of me wished I had become a forest or park ranger. So, being able to read in detail about the life of a park ranger--even an enforcement ranger--was quite interesting. There was also suspense and mystery while Ren tried to tracked down who was killing the wolves and potentially endangering Hilly. 

I was also generally impressed by how Heller addressed the wolf debate. It is a very angry and political topic, but Heller seemed to dive right in with no fear.

***SPOILERS***

My only complaint was the end of the book. It turns out that the guy who is poaching wolves in the park gets paid $1,000 per head. But he wasn't killing wolves because he's a bad guy who hates wolves. It turns out that his wife has cancer, and he's trying to pay for her treatment, which costs $7,000 per month. This felt a little melodramatic and unearned--like I had suddenly tuned into a soap opera. Killing wolves to pay for cancer treatment isn't even a realistic solution. He can't kill enough wolves to keep up with that kind of cost. Maybe he's just desperately making money anyway he can, but this whole plotline felt out of the blue. With the book from Ren's point of view, I felt that it certainly leaned towards the pro-wolf side of the debate. I wonder if this was Heller's attempt at bringing in some sympathy for the other side. Unfortunately, it didn't quite work for me. In a book that feels pretty realistic, the ending was kind of annoying.

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Every Heller book I've read, I've enjoyed and found interesting. However, there's always a little something that doesn't feel quite right or takes me out of the story. Heller sometimes reminds me of Cormac McCarthy, but not quite as good with his characters or as committing to a realistic narrative. However, I enjoy Heller's descriptions, locations, and stories, and I will continue reading his books.

#11 [2025/CBR17] Not in Love by Ali Hazelwood

Ali Hazelwood is an automatic read for me now. I always enjoy reading her books, even when the characters drive me crazy. This is because they are likeable and funny--but in order to make the story work, they can be insanely obtuse when it comes to love. Apparently, I was a little obtuse because I only recently realized that Hazelwood had two new books out.

I picked up Not in Love (2024) first, which centers around Rue. Rue is a little atypical. She only has a couple of friends, including her boss, she lives alone with a lot of plants, and her life is very regimented. Rue is not very interested in a long-term relationship--in fact, she's not even interested in more than one date. But she does have needs, so every once in awhile she finds someone on a dating app to fulfill those needs.

One evening Rue is waiting in the hotel for her latest date when Eli shows up. They've matched online and are immediately attracted to each other in a very intense way--which seems to happen a lot in romance novels, but only rarely in real life. Unfortunately for them both, they are interrupted and both leave unsatisfied. However, the next day, she sees Eli at the most unexpected of places--her work.

Eli and three close friends have a company that buys other tech companies. Eli's company has just bought out the loan for the small biotech company that Rue works for, and everyone at Rue's company is worried about the implications for their jobs and livelihoods. 

Rue is now stuck between a rock and a hard place. She is deeply attracted to Eli, but she now sees him as an enemy from whom she needs to keep her distance. Rue is very close friends with the president of her company, and Rue owes her so much. Every time she spends time with Eli she feels guilty. 

The rest of the book is Rue and Eli getting closer and closer while the drama of the takeover continues. Hazelwood experimented with some light BDSM between Rue and Eli, something I had not seen in her books before. Eventually Rue discovers why Eli's company was so interested in attaining her small biotech firm, and everything starts to make sense.

I thought this book was a fun, engaging read. I liked the characters and were happy they ended up together. The backdrop of the scientific betrayals, patents, and overtaking other companies added to the story and the relationship without dragging down the tempo. Did Rue and Eli feel like real people? Maybe not. Was their relationship too good to be true? Maybe. But that's what romances are for, and it was entertaining.

#10 [2025/CBR17] Roomies by Christina Lauren

I now feel like I'm wasting time if I'm not listening to an audiobook while I'm in my car, so I'm always on the lookout for a book that will hopefully work well for listening. I've read a couple of books by Christina Lauren (two writing-partner friends who smash their first names together to make one author's name), so when I saw Roomies (2017) available at the library, I figured I would enjoy listening to it. Unfortunately, this one was not my favorite. There were some good parts, but it just didn't draw me in as some of her others have.

Holland Bakker has a crush on a musician who plays guitar at her subway station. She actively changes her routine and goes out of her way to be able to hear him. Then one day, late at night, she is pushed onto the tracks by a crazy guy. The sexy guitar player (Calvin McLoughlin) sees what happens and calls for help. But he disappears as soon as help gets on the scene.

Holland is a nepo baby because her Uncle is a famous musician and Broadway's hottest musical director, and he got her a job at his theater. When her Uncle's show needs another musician, she recommends her sexy guitar player friend. After Calvin plays for Holland's uncle, he is offered the job. Unfortunately, he can't take it because he had an education Visa from Ireland, but he's overstayed for years. He cannot legally work in the United States.

Holland's direct boss is a bit of a dick, and he proposes that Holland marry Calvin, so that Calvin can get his Green Card. Everyone shoots down this ridiculous idea, but it sticks with Holland. She proposes the idea to Calvin, and before they know it, the two are married.

Suddenly, Calvin has moved in with Holland, and the two are learning as much about each other as possible as they prep for government interviews. They find that they really get along and are quite attracted to each other as well.

Calvin and Holland are likable people, and I wanted to see them be together and do well. I liked a lot of their interactions, and the writing was often good and fun.

On the other hand, I had some problems with some aspects of this story, and even some aspects of the romance.

-Holland is pushed onto the subway tracks by a crazy man, and Calvin just calls for help and disappears? He doesn't help her get out from a potentially lethal spot on the tracks? Did I miss something while I was listening? I was expecting a lot more from a romance hero.

-Holland and Calvin make a big deal of texting fake, sexy text messages to each other in order to "prove" their relationship to the powers that be. I don't see how less than a week of text messages would show that they'd been seriously dating for six months before getting married. If anything, it would highlight the opposite--that they'd only started communicating. Maybe they could both say that they just got new phones and lost their text messages??? Anyway, there were a number of problems with the believable marriage part of the storyline that made the story distracting.

-Finally, the first time Holland and Calvin have sex, they wake up in bed together, both too drunk and hungover to even remember what had happened the night before. Eventually, we kind of find out what happened during flashbacks, but I don't find black-out-drunk sex very sexy.

So, this wasn't a bad book, but I came in with high expectations, and they weren't quite met. Maybe I like Christina Lauren books that are more fanciful because then I'm not distracted by the parts of the plot that feel too unrealistic.